The end of the best year of my life , bidding Adieu to 2010 , and Welcoming 2011 ,I'm sure the best"est" yet to come :)
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
Sunday, November 7, 2010
Of the festival of Lights ....Happy Diwali Folks!
Asato ma sadgamaya
Tamaso ma jyotirgamaya
Mrtyorma amrtam gamaya..
Tamaso ma jyotirgamaya
Mrtyorma amrtam gamaya..
Lead me from the illusion to the truth.
Lead me from darkness to light.
Lead me from death to immortality.
Lead me from darkness to light.
Lead me from death to immortality.
Wishing each one of you a very Happy Diwali and a Prosperous New Year!
Lots of Love and Light to all! :)
Friday, October 8, 2010
Rest in Peace..
Ever wondered what happens after one passes on to a world unknown to all of us?
This was my first experience of watching someone who has passed on ,so closely.
When my maternal grandmother passed on, I wasn't even born.
When my maternal grandfather passed on , i did not go to see him on his final journey as i had to stay back at home to look after my paternal grandparents.
When my paternal grandfather passed on , I was out of town , only to reach when it was the last bit of him going into the ambulance to take him to the crematorium.
When my paternal grandmother passed on , I was admitted in hospital after a spine surgery.I still remember , it was one day after my surgery , I was in immense pain only to be topped by the pain that I could not bid her farewell ;Though she did come to my dream that night and gave me the worlds warmest hug to say goodbye.
It was as if God was actually protecting me from seeing death that close ; coz i was always afraid to face the truth of death.
I am sure they are all in a peaceful place now and have united there to form one big happy family.
A few days back , my in-law , paternal grandfather passed on.
He was unwell for the last 4 month and we prayed each day that he passes on peacefully instead of suffering like he was.
But still , when i got the news, something stirred within me.
I dint know how i was going to face seeing him and the funeral procession there after, I must admit i was scared ; and my grandparents did flash before me...
But i guess ; i have matured over time and HE up there realized that and decided to make me face it.
We went there , and I saw him laid down, looking at peace where he was.
It dint feel like anything I did not want to feel.
It was only once before that I had met him and took an instant liking to him.
He looked adorable.Very knowledgeable from what I had heard of him.
The one time i met him , we chatted like we'd known each other already. He told me a few stories, some of his village , some of how he battled a heart surgery and cataract and some of his travels.
Very interesting indeed.
The best part about the conversation was , we dint speak each others language.
He spoke Marathi and I spoke in Hindi. But somehow, both of us understood each other.As they say , we "spoke the language of the heart".
It was wonderful to know him. I feel privileged.
As i saw him go on his final journey and watched his 3 sons and Ameya , carry him on their shoulders, i could not hold back the tears, but at the same time was proud to see the number of people who had turned up to pay their last respects to him; and i was told that each one there knew him personally! wow! what a fulfilling life I'd say.
Not many get the privilege to pass on in the same home they were born! He did! Good karma i guess :)
This is a tribute to him, my grandparents and all the people Ive known and been close to who are in a world unknown to us.. which i would like to believe..is a world with the kind of peace we dream of.. a world with no terrorists , a world where there is no anger,jealousy or any other vices.. just beauty all around with a fresh fragrance in the air...
Rest in Peace, Ajoba. You will definitely be missed.
This was my first experience of watching someone who has passed on ,so closely.
When my maternal grandmother passed on, I wasn't even born.
When my maternal grandfather passed on , i did not go to see him on his final journey as i had to stay back at home to look after my paternal grandparents.
When my paternal grandfather passed on , I was out of town , only to reach when it was the last bit of him going into the ambulance to take him to the crematorium.
When my paternal grandmother passed on , I was admitted in hospital after a spine surgery.I still remember , it was one day after my surgery , I was in immense pain only to be topped by the pain that I could not bid her farewell ;Though she did come to my dream that night and gave me the worlds warmest hug to say goodbye.
It was as if God was actually protecting me from seeing death that close ; coz i was always afraid to face the truth of death.
I am sure they are all in a peaceful place now and have united there to form one big happy family.
A few days back , my in-law , paternal grandfather passed on.
He was unwell for the last 4 month and we prayed each day that he passes on peacefully instead of suffering like he was.
But still , when i got the news, something stirred within me.
I dint know how i was going to face seeing him and the funeral procession there after, I must admit i was scared ; and my grandparents did flash before me...
But i guess ; i have matured over time and HE up there realized that and decided to make me face it.
We went there , and I saw him laid down, looking at peace where he was.
It dint feel like anything I did not want to feel.
It was only once before that I had met him and took an instant liking to him.
He looked adorable.Very knowledgeable from what I had heard of him.
The one time i met him , we chatted like we'd known each other already. He told me a few stories, some of his village , some of how he battled a heart surgery and cataract and some of his travels.
Very interesting indeed.
The best part about the conversation was , we dint speak each others language.
He spoke Marathi and I spoke in Hindi. But somehow, both of us understood each other.As they say , we "spoke the language of the heart".
It was wonderful to know him. I feel privileged.
As i saw him go on his final journey and watched his 3 sons and Ameya , carry him on their shoulders, i could not hold back the tears, but at the same time was proud to see the number of people who had turned up to pay their last respects to him; and i was told that each one there knew him personally! wow! what a fulfilling life I'd say.
Not many get the privilege to pass on in the same home they were born! He did! Good karma i guess :)
This is a tribute to him, my grandparents and all the people Ive known and been close to who are in a world unknown to us.. which i would like to believe..is a world with the kind of peace we dream of.. a world with no terrorists , a world where there is no anger,jealousy or any other vices.. just beauty all around with a fresh fragrance in the air...
Rest in Peace, Ajoba. You will definitely be missed.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Friday, September 10, 2010
Ganpati Bappa Morya !!!
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Of Sense and Sensitivity....
Saturday evening went by , watching Aashayein. Loved it!
Cut to - The morning after .Sunday.
As usual, went about our chores and took the stash of the Sunday editions .
To my surprise/disgust/whatever you may like to call it (but something to that sentiment), read the following review on the movie :
http://www.punemirror.in/index.aspx?Page=article§name=Entertainment%20-%20Film%20Reviews§id=58&contentid=2010082920100829001951162724dc210
I definitely had a response for Mr.Minty!!
Have e-mailed him. Lets wait and watch if i do get a response! or my "Aashayein" go for a toss ;)
Here goes :
HI Minty!
This comes 4 minutes after reading your review on "Aashayein".
Just one question out of curiosity "Have you even watched the movie?"
Sad , but true , you seem to be in a real bad mood for the past few weeks.
It makes one wonder , if you can rate a movie like "Aisha" 3 stars , which has only no brainer-women strutting their stuff and glamor quotient , What happens when movies like "Aashayein" are made with so much sensitivity ?
Well , the answer is,you rate it a mere 1/2 star , if it is to be believed it is not a printing error.
In my opinion, which is not as privileged as yours to be published, Aashayein is made for the sensitive souls and for the numerous people who have seen their near and dear ones go through the struggle for a hope of survival. Aashayein is not expected to provide only a high entertainment score but it is also an inception of a concept to have a shelter for terminally ill people who choose to step out of the mainstream world into a cocoon free from fake sympathy and assurances of false hopes.
Instead of mocking at it , i would love to see you watch and understand the metaphor the movie clearly showcases.
The Indiana Jones angle is a tool to execute the one last wish for people who face their death for no fault of theirs. This makes it significantly different than the last wish offered before a criminal is executed.
"The bald gifted kid" is just a way to tell us humans that we should not give up hope.
One cannot blame you for not noticing such sensitivities in these metaphors. If Aashayein hurts your sensibilities, then I am sure the upcoming move ,"Mallika" would awaken them!
If you prefer John in Dostana as opposed to Aashayein, then you shouldn't have reviewed this movie at all in the first place. Genuine critics are unbiased and unpersonal.Hard to find, obviously!
I wonder how many people may miss this sensitively made film after reading your review.
Sigh !!!
Cut to - The morning after .Sunday.
As usual, went about our chores and took the stash of the Sunday editions .
To my surprise/disgust/whatever you may like to call it (but something to that sentiment), read the following review on the movie :
http://www.punemirror.in/index.aspx?Page=article§name=Entertainment%20-%20Film%20Reviews§id=58&contentid=2010082920100829001951162724dc210
I definitely had a response for Mr.Minty!!
Have e-mailed him. Lets wait and watch if i do get a response! or my "Aashayein" go for a toss ;)
Here goes :
HI Minty!
This comes 4 minutes after reading your review on "Aashayein".
Just one question out of curiosity "Have you even watched the movie?"
Sad , but true , you seem to be in a real bad mood for the past few weeks.
It makes one wonder , if you can rate a movie like "Aisha" 3 stars , which has only no brainer-women strutting their stuff and glamor quotient , What happens when movies like "Aashayein" are made with so much sensitivity ?
Well , the answer is,you rate it a mere 1/2 star , if it is to be believed it is not a printing error.
In my opinion, which is not as privileged as yours to be published, Aashayein is made for the sensitive souls and for the numerous people who have seen their near and dear ones go through the struggle for a hope of survival. Aashayein is not expected to provide only a high entertainment score but it is also an inception of a concept to have a shelter for terminally ill people who choose to step out of the mainstream world into a cocoon free from fake sympathy and assurances of false hopes.
Instead of mocking at it , i would love to see you watch and understand the metaphor the movie clearly showcases.
The Indiana Jones angle is a tool to execute the one last wish for people who face their death for no fault of theirs. This makes it significantly different than the last wish offered before a criminal is executed.
"The bald gifted kid" is just a way to tell us humans that we should not give up hope.
One cannot blame you for not noticing such sensitivities in these metaphors. If Aashayein hurts your sensibilities, then I am sure the upcoming move ,"Mallika" would awaken them!
If you prefer John in Dostana as opposed to Aashayein, then you shouldn't have reviewed this movie at all in the first place. Genuine critics are unbiased and unpersonal.Hard to find, obviously!
I wonder how many people may miss this sensitively made film after reading your review.
Sigh !!!
Friday, August 13, 2010
Prayer........
Prayer doesn't just happen when we kneel or put hands together and focus.
When u hug a friend, tht's prayer...
When u cook something to nourish family & friends tht's prayer.
When you send them off with 'Drive Safely' or 'Be Safe' tht's a prayer too.
When you are helping someone in need by giving your time,energy, and money, you are giving prayer and answering one at the same time...
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