Saturday, January 31, 2009
Would love to get comments on this one ;)
FREUD SAID-"TO SATISFY A WOMAN, A MAN SHOULD BE ON TOP OF HER IN EVERY SENSE OF WORD". ...
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Numerology and me......
Hmmm....many of you must be wondering why suddenly from being "Tina Malkani" , i switched to "Tteena Malkaani"...and im sure many many of you know that its a Jumaani job! :)
And for those of you who dont know the Jumaanis...tch..tch....look up http://www.jumaani.com/ :)
Just before i logged on to their website, i told a friend of mine..."ive tried everything...why not try numerology as the last resort?".....
I went on with eyes wide open, looking at their client list...and wishing i could be one of them....
when suddenly i went to the "contact us" page and guess what i read there...
"Possibly every thing has been going wrong with you for long. You have tried every possible solution. Why not contact a numerologist as a last resort ?"
and i thought to myself..."it cannot get closer to reality than this"!!
Numerology is calling out to meeeeeeee ;)
Well, as they say, the rest is history ;) and from Tina Malkani , i turned to, Tteena Malkaani....looking fwd to a bright"er" future :)
Sairam.........................
And for those of you who dont know the Jumaanis...tch..tch....look up http://www.jumaani.com/ :)
Just before i logged on to their website, i told a friend of mine..."ive tried everything...why not try numerology as the last resort?".....
I went on with eyes wide open, looking at their client list...and wishing i could be one of them....
when suddenly i went to the "contact us" page and guess what i read there...
"Possibly every thing has been going wrong with you for long. You have tried every possible solution. Why not contact a numerologist as a last resort ?"
and i thought to myself..."it cannot get closer to reality than this"!!
Numerology is calling out to meeeeeeee ;)
Well, as they say, the rest is history ;) and from Tina Malkani , i turned to, Tteena Malkaani....looking fwd to a bright"er" future :)
Sairam.........................
Whats more important??? :)
What is more important to you ..the love you share, the memories you have, or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have."
The law of the garbage truck............
"One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane then suddenly a car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean he was really friendly.So I asked, "Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!" This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, "The Law of the Garbage Truck." He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally. Just smile, wave, Wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home or on the streets. The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so....."Love the people who treat you right...Pray for the ones who don't." Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!!!
The Awakening................
The Awakening
A time comes in your life when you finally get it . . . When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere, the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying, or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes, you begin to look at the world through new eyes.
This is your awakening...
You realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. You come to terms with the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world, there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter) and that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with you and in the process, a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are . . . and that's OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions.) And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself and in the process; a sense of newfound confidence is born of self-approval.
You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you (or didn't do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people don't always say what they mean or mean what they say, and that not everyone will always be there for you and that it's not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process, a sense of safety & security is born of self-reliance.
You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process, a sense of peace & contentment is born of forgiveness.
You realize that much of the way you view yourself and the world around you, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche. You begin to sift through all the junk you've been fed about how you should behave, how you should look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should shop and what you should drive, how and where you should live and what you should do for a living, who you should marry and what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children or what you owe your parents. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for.
You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with and in the process, you learn to go with your instincts.
You learn that it is truly in giving that we receive and that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a "consumer" looking for your next fix.
You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a by gone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
You learn that you don't know everything; it's not your job to save the world and that you can't teach a pig to sing. You learn to distinguish between guilt, responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake.
Then you learn about love, romantic love and familial love, how to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important because of the man on your arm or the child that bears your name.
You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.
You learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love; and you learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms, just to make you happy.
You learn that alone does not mean lonely. You look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you "stack up."
You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK and that it is your right, to want things and to ask for the things that you want and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands.
You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, respect, and you won't settle for less. You allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you, to glorify you with his touch and in the process; you internalize the meaning of self-respect.
And you learn that your body really is your temple. And you begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water and taking more time to exercise. You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear. So you take more time to rest. Just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul; so you take more time to laugh and to play.
You learn that for the most part in life, you get what you believe you deserve and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen.
More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You also learn that no one can do it all alone and that it's OK to risk asking for help.
You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time; FEAR itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears, because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear, is to give away the right to live life on your terms.
You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions, you learn not to personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers; it's just life happening.
You learn to deal with evil in its most primal state; the ego. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.
You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted; things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about; a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself, by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never ever settle for less than your heart's desire. You hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind, and you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side you take a stand, you take a deep breath and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.
A time comes in your life when you finally get it . . . When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere, the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying, or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes, you begin to look at the world through new eyes.
This is your awakening...
You realize that it's time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change, or for happiness, safety and security to come galloping over the next horizon. You come to terms with the fact that he is not Prince Charming and you are not Cinderella and that in the real world, there aren't always fairy tale endings (or beginnings for that matter) and that any guarantee of "happily ever after" must begin with you and in the process, a sense of serenity is born of acceptance.
You awaken to the fact that you are not perfect and that not everyone will always love, appreciate or approve of who or what you are . . . and that's OK. (They are entitled to their own views and opinions.) And you learn the importance of loving and championing yourself and in the process; a sense of newfound confidence is born of self-approval.
You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you (or didn't do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people don't always say what they mean or mean what they say, and that not everyone will always be there for you and that it's not always about you. So, you learn to stand on your own and to take care of yourself and in the process, a sense of safety & security is born of self-reliance.
You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their shortcomings and human frailties and in the process, a sense of peace & contentment is born of forgiveness.
You realize that much of the way you view yourself and the world around you, is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche. You begin to sift through all the junk you've been fed about how you should behave, how you should look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should shop and what you should drive, how and where you should live and what you should do for a living, who you should marry and what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children or what you owe your parents. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. You begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for.
You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you've outgrown, or should never have bought into to begin with and in the process, you learn to go with your instincts.
You learn that it is truly in giving that we receive and that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through life merely as a "consumer" looking for your next fix.
You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a by gone era, but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life.
You learn that you don't know everything; it's not your job to save the world and that you can't teach a pig to sing. You learn to distinguish between guilt, responsibility, and the importance of setting boundaries and learning to say NO. You learn that the only cross to bear is the one you choose to carry and that martyrs get burned at the stake.
Then you learn about love, romantic love and familial love, how to love, how much to give in love, when to stop giving and when to walk away. You learn not to project your needs or your feelings onto a relationship. You learn that you will not be more beautiful, more intelligent, more lovable or important because of the man on your arm or the child that bears your name.
You learn to look at relationships as they really are and not as you would have them be. You stop trying to control people, situations and outcomes.
You learn that just as people grow and change, so it is with love; and you learn that you don't have the right to demand love on your terms, just to make you happy.
You learn that alone does not mean lonely. You look in the mirror and come to terms with the fact that you will never be a size 5 or a perfect 10 and you stop trying to compete with the image inside your head and agonizing over how you "stack up."
You also stop working so hard at putting your feelings aside, smoothing things over and ignoring your needs. You learn that feelings of entitlement are perfectly OK and that it is your right, to want things and to ask for the things that you want and that sometimes it is necessary to make demands.
You come to the realization that you deserve to be treated with love, kindness, sensitivity, respect, and you won't settle for less. You allow only the hands of a lover who cherishes you, to glorify you with his touch and in the process; you internalize the meaning of self-respect.
And you learn that your body really is your temple. And you begin to care for it and treat it with respect. You begin eating a balanced diet, drinking more water and taking more time to exercise. You learn that fatigue diminishes the spirit and can create doubt and fear. So you take more time to rest. Just as food fuels the body, laughter fuels our soul; so you take more time to laugh and to play.
You learn that for the most part in life, you get what you believe you deserve and that much of life truly is a self-fulfilling prophecy. You learn that anything worth achieving is worth working for and that wishing for something to happen is different from working toward making it happen.
More importantly, you learn that in order to achieve success you need direction, discipline and perseverance. You also learn that no one can do it all alone and that it's OK to risk asking for help.
You learn that the only thing you must truly fear is the great robber baron of all time; FEAR itself. You learn to step right into and through your fears, because you know that whatever happens you can handle it and to give in to fear, is to give away the right to live life on your terms.
You learn to fight for your life and not to squander it living under a cloud of impending doom. You learn that life isn't always fair, you don't always get what you think you deserve and that sometimes bad things happen to unsuspecting, good people. On these occasions, you learn not to personalize things. You learn that God isn't punishing you or failing to answer your prayers; it's just life happening.
You learn to deal with evil in its most primal state; the ego. You learn that negative feelings such as anger, envy and resentment must be understood and redirected or they will suffocate the life out of you and poison the universe that surrounds you. You learn to admit when you are wrong and to build bridges instead of walls.
You learn to be thankful and to take comfort in many of the simple things we take for granted; things that millions of people upon the earth can only dream about; a full refrigerator, clean running water, a soft warm bed, a long hot shower. Slowly, you begin to take responsibility for yourself, by yourself and you make yourself a promise to never betray yourself and to never ever settle for less than your heart's desire. You hang a wind chime outside your window so you can listen to the wind, and you make it a point to keep smiling, to keep trusting and to stay open to every wonderful possibility.
Finally, with courage in your heart and with God by your side you take a stand, you take a deep breath and you begin to design the life you want to live as best as you can.
Im back ...........
Just a few quotes once again....
i live by these.....:)
"A misery is not to be measured from the nature of the evil, but from the temper of the sufferer "
The biggest mistake anyone can commit while falling in love is not to understand that love is its own reward. Getting into love with expectations is as senseless as setting forth to play all your fortune at the casino named blackhole.
"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.
Whatever you speak, HE hears,
Whatever you do , HE witnesses,
Whatever you think , HE weighs......
Sai Baba-
"Life is a game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds and words return to us sooner or later with astounding accuracy."
"If u sow faith...u will reap miracles..."
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People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within
The road in life has many turns. Keep your hands on the wheel; watch straight ahead. Fasten your seat belt and commit yourself to making every turn."--- Larry Fleming
Apolpgizing doesn't mean that you are wrong and the other is right.It means that you value the relationship more than your ego....
No matter what you do, or did not do, you deserve to be loved
Our strength grows out of our weaknesses.
Life is like a ten-speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use
Happiness is a perfume. You cannot spread it on others without getting a few drops on yourself. So always be happy to make others happy!
U can hide the pain u feel n make others believe that u can move on.But u cant deny the truth that the 1 who has hurt u is still the one ull always choose to love
"Follow the master, face the devil, fight to the end, finish the game." - Baba
Every Morning in Africa a deer wakes up.It Knows it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a lion wakes up.It knows it must run faster than the slowest deer or it will starve to death. It Doesn't matter if you are a lion or deer, when the Sun comes up you'd better be running."
Every lady hopes that her daughter will marry a better man than she did and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as his father did!!!
"No one does anything inappropriate, given theirmodel of the world."
ॐ" What hurts you so bad that you feel you have to hurt me in order to heal it?
For achieving anything in life, two things are essential: firm faith and pure love
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love."
"Opportunity is missed by most people because it comes dressed in overalls and looks like work."
"Silence is the language of the realised soul". - Baba
ॐ"When the foot slips, the wound can be healed. But when the tongue slips, the wound it causes in the heart of another will fester for life-Satya Sai.."
"What is conventionally called LOVE...is an EGO STRATEGY to AVOID SURRENDER OF SELF"
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option"
The Shortest Solution of every problem is to minimize the distance between your knees and the floor... Those who kneel down to God; can stand up to anything !!!
Don't walk as if you rule the world, walk as if you don't care who rules the world!
Opportunity knocks just once,temptation leans on the door bell........
"No One goes his way alone......All that we send into the lives of others,comes back into our own."
Start writing a new chapter, for if you live by the book you'll never make history."....
ॐ"I don't want to own anything that won't fit into my coffin
ॐ"♫ I removed "L" from LOVER....... n now its all OVER!!!
"Dont pray for me , for I am only Blind...Pray for those who do not have vision..."
Our lives begin to end, the moment we become silent about things that matter
"I have learned silence from the talkative, tolerance from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strange, I am ungrateful to these teachers."- Khalil Gibran.
i live by these.....:)
"A misery is not to be measured from the nature of the evil, but from the temper of the sufferer "
The biggest mistake anyone can commit while falling in love is not to understand that love is its own reward. Getting into love with expectations is as senseless as setting forth to play all your fortune at the casino named blackhole.
"Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.
Whatever you speak, HE hears,
Whatever you do , HE witnesses,
Whatever you think , HE weighs......
Sai Baba-
"Life is a game of boomerangs. Our thoughts, deeds and words return to us sooner or later with astounding accuracy."
"If u sow faith...u will reap miracles..."
.
People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within
The road in life has many turns. Keep your hands on the wheel; watch straight ahead. Fasten your seat belt and commit yourself to making every turn."--- Larry Fleming
Apolpgizing doesn't mean that you are wrong and the other is right.It means that you value the relationship more than your ego....
No matter what you do, or did not do, you deserve to be loved
Our strength grows out of our weaknesses.
Life is like a ten-speed bicycle. Most of us have gears we never use
Happiness is a perfume. You cannot spread it on others without getting a few drops on yourself. So always be happy to make others happy!
U can hide the pain u feel n make others believe that u can move on.But u cant deny the truth that the 1 who has hurt u is still the one ull always choose to love
"Follow the master, face the devil, fight to the end, finish the game." - Baba
Every Morning in Africa a deer wakes up.It Knows it must run faster than the fastest lion or it will be killed. Every morning a lion wakes up.It knows it must run faster than the slowest deer or it will starve to death. It Doesn't matter if you are a lion or deer, when the Sun comes up you'd better be running."
Every lady hopes that her daughter will marry a better man than she did and is convinced that her son will never find a wife as good as his father did!!!
"No one does anything inappropriate, given theirmodel of the world."
ॐ" What hurts you so bad that you feel you have to hurt me in order to heal it?
For achieving anything in life, two things are essential: firm faith and pure love
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love."
"Opportunity is missed by most people because it comes dressed in overalls and looks like work."
"Silence is the language of the realised soul". - Baba
ॐ"When the foot slips, the wound can be healed. But when the tongue slips, the wound it causes in the heart of another will fester for life-Satya Sai.."
"What is conventionally called LOVE...is an EGO STRATEGY to AVOID SURRENDER OF SELF"
"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option"
The Shortest Solution of every problem is to minimize the distance between your knees and the floor... Those who kneel down to God; can stand up to anything !!!
Don't walk as if you rule the world, walk as if you don't care who rules the world!
Opportunity knocks just once,temptation leans on the door bell........
"No One goes his way alone......All that we send into the lives of others,comes back into our own."
Start writing a new chapter, for if you live by the book you'll never make history."....
ॐ"I don't want to own anything that won't fit into my coffin
ॐ"♫ I removed "L" from LOVER....... n now its all OVER!!!
"Dont pray for me , for I am only Blind...Pray for those who do not have vision..."
Our lives begin to end, the moment we become silent about things that matter
"I have learned silence from the talkative, tolerance from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet strange, I am ungrateful to these teachers."- Khalil Gibran.
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