Of Sex Lies and Videotape.....

"Is your Tiger a Cheatah" is what the article was titled... I loved it!

Its alarming as to how the world is a changing on values and traditions...
In the "olden times" it always was about being a "one man woman" or a "one woman man" ... it seems like the olden times have become golden times for both , men and women with multi partners... (by this i mean one man/woman at a time- not that one cannot have more than one relationship) -just to clear the air before i get accused of hypocrisy ;)
I for sure belong to the olden times and im glad about it....and i don't believe the fact that i have to call it so..
Its seems so easy to cheat on ones partner today... All over the papers and magazines one reads articles about how to detect a liar, how to find out if your partner is cheating on you, how infedility can actually save a marriage and how maybe telling a few white lies is a done thing...

I may seem like i come from a very old school of thought, but buddy thats what it is. You take it or leave it. I also know i sound enraged right now and I very well am, at what the world has come to.


From the above "white lies" between partners is something i would want to comment upon;
White lies - is an oxymoron in my opinion..
The world wide web describes it as -"an unimportant lie (especially one told to be tactful or polite)"
So if its unimportant, why lie about it in first place. Being tactful isnt always a positive nature, i say..
Lies are black. No matter what. There is no white lie between partners in my dictionary.
If one is not comfortable telling the truth then one should be even more uncomfortable telling a so called white lie. Just dont do things that are wrong so the question of even white lying does not arise.
But then again whats right for me may be wrong for the other and whats wrong for me may be right for the other, which can be a whole new topic of discussion altogether, where I am not going now.
For every one lie which is told, one has to create 2 - 3 more to cover up the first one.
One also needs to have a fantastic memory to remember who he/she has lied to and what...so that they dont end up being in a mess..

While writing this..I chanced upon a very interesting video ; for those of you who want to know how to detect a liar :) (ignore that last bit where they talk only about Americans) ;) .. i think the world is turning that way..

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